Tuesday, 28 February 2017

Dear Science Students And Everyone Who Got Offended

Dear Science Students And Everyone Who Got Offended,

Here I am, again.
And I am here because there has been massive recoil on my previous post, which was also addressed to science students.
I want to make it completely transparent that I, in no way whatsoever, wrote it to degrade you lot.
My logic here is simple: you take pride in your subjects, so why shouldn't I? Sure, perhaps you are more interested in chemistry than I am, but do not shit on me and everything I believe in just because it's not the same as your beliefs and interests.
To the person who said "I am a science student because I achieved to be so." The whole point of this blog was to tell you, everybody, that dumb students do not choose arts because they can't cope with science or commerce. We choose arts because, just as you develop a keen interest in studying atoms or gravity or pressure, we find beauty in the way the mind works and society functions.
Yes, perhaps our textbooks aren't as thick or heavy and perhaps our portion only consists of 10 chapters, maximum. But that does not mean what we are studying is not important. In no way does it make us worthless or unable to contribute to society.
Think about depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia. Where do you think people with these disorders would be right now if it weren't for the multiple advancements made in the field of psychology?
Without economics and being able to study the per capita income or gross domestic product, without any knowledge of the supply and demand curves and inflation rates, without a proper understanding of the economy and needs of people, and without the ability to make economically efficient allocation of resources, it would be nearly impossible for nations to progress.
Every subject has it's own pros and cons.
I'm also not saying each and every science student is like this. But a majority of you are.
So if you're one of the few science students who does not consider arts inferior, I apologize for having generalized in my previous post.
I have seen several memes on the internet. One such that I saw quite recently, was one that said "I do not always talk to arts students, but when I do, I order large fries."
Does anybody want to take a wild fucking guess how many times I've been told "Drop out and be unemployed already. It's not like you have a lot of career options in the future with arts anyway"?
More times than I can count.
Oh, and the part where I say you don't enjoy your subjects? That I do apologize for, because that is not always true.
I just feel like we, as a community, have been conditioned to place science above arts even though it is not true. We have been told science is for the smart people and arts is for those who weren't smart enough get into science. Not true, is it? We are here because we chose to be here.
In conclusion, my blog was not written with the objective of making science students feel like shit.
It was only written so that I could defend myself for being an arts student, because apparently, that's what it has come to. I wrote it so I could defend myself against the discrimination that I, along with so many others, have been facing, so that finally, maybe we could see it come to an end.

Sincerely hoping I don't offend anyone this time,

An Arts Student 

Tuesday, 21 February 2017

Dear Science Students

Dear Science Students,

I am sorry your subjects are difficult. I am sorry you can’t cope with them more often than not. I am sorry you have three subjects more than I do and most of all, I am sorry I chose to do something I love.
I am sorry for everything I am about to say, but you need to hear it.
You are not better than me. I still have to study, like you do. I still have books, I still have assignments. I still have a brain and feelings, too.
So every time you say to me “You’re an arts student because you’re stupid”, think again.
I am an arts student because I chose to be so.
And I did not choose my subjects because it means less studying and an easy time.
I made this decision because I would rather spend my education learning about how the mind works and about society rather than chemicals and the human anatomy.
This is what I love and shame on you if you can’t respect that.
Yes, I got 92% in my tenth boards and yes, I did not have math or science.
But that doesn’t mean I was handed that 92% on a silver fucking platter.
No, I worked just as hard as you did. I studied day in and day out and I went to my tuitions every single day. And I solved papers and revised everything a thousand times, just like you did.
So don’t you dare invalidate that. Don’t you dare come and tell me that my 92% doesn’t count because I had economics, commerce and arts as my subjects.
Quit complaining about how science is the most difficult stream ever and arts is a cakewalk.
I am sorry you don’t enjoy your subjects.
I am sorry you have to continually put arts students down just to feel good about choosing science.
I am sorry, but get a fucking life, mate.

Sincerely,

An Arts student

Monday, 6 February 2017

just because

just because she tells you her parents aren’t home doesn’t mean she wants you to come over.
just because she says her lips are chapped doesn’t mean it’s an invitation for you to force your lips upon hers.
just because she occasionally touches your arm while talking doesn’t mean she wants yours all over her.
just because she says she’s had more than one boyfriend doesn’t mean she’s easy.
just because she’s had a few casual relationships doesn’t mean she’ll sleep with everyone who comes her way.
just because she doesn’t tell you to shut up when you call her ‘hot’, ‘sexy’, etc., doesn’t mean she likes it.
just because she doesn’t slap you when you shamelessly stare down her top doesn’t mean she likes being objectified.
just because she doesn’t block you on snapchat when you ask her for nudes doesn’t mean she secretly wants you.
just because she’s being nice does not mean she wants to be taken advantage of.